Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Black People wake the hell up(RETWEET PLZ)

I will be addressing these issues more later in another posting I am too caught up emotionally at this moment to speak on this topic.

Enjoy and pass the video along.

thank you pumpkins

Chanel

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Friday, September 25, 2009

Friday Follow Blog(Retweet Plz)

Friday (Trentemoller Remix) by Fred Everything & 20 For 7  
Download now or listen on posterous
Fred Everything & 20 For 7 - Friday (Trentemoller Remix).mp3 (9049 KB)

Yall know how I do this so this is nothing new I hate cloggin up the time line with post after post about follow this follow that. Now No one is slighted or over looked please don't catch feelings if you aint make it into this weeks blog as long as I am following you, you will eventually make it into one of my post. I am following over 400 people for a reason.

First I wanna thank everyone that continually shows me love on Follow Friday hell yall show it to me all the week long.

That's why my followers and those I follow are the absolute best folk on twitter. Chanel has the creme de la creme of it all.

You know I have two twitter names @TsSexyChanel & @TsDiabolique. TsDiabolique is my XXX profile though at times I can't tell the difference between either you know I just gotta be me. I try to keep TsSexyChanel as PG as possible but you know any way I digress.

Today's follows are as such

First My Devastating Diva's :

@dequese not an industry chick but still one of the baddest cougars & my BFF
@girlypimp Princess Tiffany is the shit and you know it
@PrincessLynne She from Chicago too we run this shit
@lailonnibxxx we don't tweet each other much but we have a mutual lust 4 each other
@sexysapphire My Bmore secret lover
@caramel dreams My right arm in this bizness I LOVE THIS BISH
@the lovely Nikki Diva delights check her out
@platinumpuzzy even though I missed her Chicago trip I will be seein her when I travel we got business to handle
@sweetcandiesXXX My canadian black tatted up rock sex vixen
@EricaCane Beware men we are working on some shit together & yall in trouble
@damaliadaresThe diva cooks in the bed room and the kitchen southern beauty
@mznikittablue umm its personal but yeah follow her

Porn Kings
@blkpoppie187 Got some shit on the way you don't wanna miss
@Ebonypornstars For showing the persons of color as top notch
@Kingjefferishere the DMV connection he handles that business
@backoutvideo You already know they got the hottest shit

Youtubers I love

It takes a real man to befriend a trannie and not care about what other folks have to say about it shout out to all my real men out there. Not those that secretly want me sexually that's another blog these are the men that are my true homies and are secure in they own sexuality and masculinity and can be friends with any one that is real.

My homie fo life
The illiest graphics guy & beat producer
My tattoo artist and piercer
My spigga if he don't get no bigga

For helpin my hair stay uber fly

The bloggers
http://twitter.com/missjia She so fuckin official

My peeps

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

ACCEPTANCE(RETWEET PLZ)

While observing several conversations on all the social networking sites, blogs and forums that I am a part of and or manage. I got an epiphany of something that I have already known for years but there are times we forget what we know and need to take a refresher course on lessons already learned.

That lesson for me was that sometimes we have to leave people where they are at. Just because I am ready to move on to a higher intellectual level, educational level, spiritual level or emotional level doesn't mean that its time for everyone else to as well.

Everyone develops at their own rate and we will only be met with resistance and frustration when we try to force that which is not ready, and ultimately either end up frustrating ourselves or stunting our own growth.

People are like cakes and they must do their time in the oven to be made ready for removal. Would you stand at an oven door yelling at a cake to hurry up and be done?

We have to accept the fact that some people aren't mentally, emotionally, educationally or spiritually ready to be where we think that they should be and we need acceptance with that. Our goal in life is not to fix them but to work on ourselves. Those we can help we help but we have to accept that sometimes what you have just aint for err body. There is a biblical scripture that goes Don't cast your peals before swine. You could be dead right but it might not be that persons season to know it.

The need to be right or understood goes back to vanity and pride and this is something that robs us of happiness.  Yall know my phrase I try to live by is you are entitled to feel anyway you want about me and my life even if it is absolutely wrong. It is not my job to make you understand me. I am valid inspite of your opinions of me.

I encourage you all today to just do you, Don't let that which is outside of you affect you any more than it should.

I live you with my sister Erica's favorite saying " It is what it is"

love you pumpkins

Chanel

See and download the full gallery on posterous

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Saturday, September 19, 2009

All you need is a belief in yourself & something bigger than small minded people

  
Download now or listen on posterous
Madonna - 04. You'll See.mp3 (4017 KB)

Today's post is about the spirit of determination. I was thinking about some of the negative communications I received from people throughout my life and accessing the value of those words as it relates to the life I have today. It means absolutely nothing.

I know a lot of you might say well I am successful or pretty but there is nothing special about me that the universe doesn't afford to you too. It too sheer determination and will in spite of all the things that were thrown at me and against me, to continue on a path that I knew one day would bring me peace, satisfaction and joy in my life.

I am surrounded by friends and family now but there were times when it was absolutely no one but me and my God and I had to have the faith to believe that he loved me as much as he loved the people around me being blessed.

When I think back to being in school I think its funny now that kids would allow other kids who absolutely know nothing about life tell them what they can and can't do and who and what they will be in life.

Let the words of others motivate you every negative thing you hear should be the inspiration to do you. Make the very weapons they use to try to break you down motivate you to something greater.

Not that life is a competition but there is a certain satisfaction when you can smile in contentment being and doing what you want in life and having those same people be witness to it.

There are no obstacles in life the challenges of life are what makes the goal worth achieving.

NOTHING WORTH HAVING IS EVER EASY

love you pumpkins

Chanel

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Know who is in your life(retweet plz)

Today I will be talking about the people in our lives and their reasons for being. You all know of my spirituality and my open mind of thinking about all the people and situations that I am in. I am never one to sit back and believe that the world is happening around me and I have no control over what is going on in my life.

I like to take a more active role in my life as much as I believe in God I believe that I can have a direct relation to what happens in my life by my way of thinking or looking at every situation and person that is in it.

I am grateful for all of the people that come by my way not just those that love and adore me. I feel that I can get something from everyone I come into contact with some people are examples of what I want to be in life even more important are those that are examples of what I don't want to be. Sometimes when we are not living up to our best we can see it better in others than we can with ourselves. They are a mirror of something that we need to be changing in ourselves, that is why the very sight of them will annoy us so much we see too much of ourselves in them.

You know I don't believe in chance encounters or meetings I believe everything is directly and divinely ordered and its up to us to figure out who and why these people are that are in our lives and the purpose or lesson we should be getting from them.

So my encouragement for you today is to evaluate the people you come into contact with today see what the reason is for their being in your life at this time get the lesson to be learned and remember there is nothing as a truly unimportant person, everyone has something to offer in life if only as an example of what not to be or do in life.

Take care pumpkin

Chanel

See and download the full gallery on posterous

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Friday, September 11, 2009

Reflections of 9/11

The tragedy of the twin towers affected so many people in our nation. All of us can vividly remember where we were at the moment the planes hit or the feelings and emotions we had as we watched in horror as the towers came tumbling down.

There are many ways we can look at any situation. While it seems unfair that so many had to die in such a horrific way. When we sit here in America and enjoy the blessings of the type of society it's easy to forget that there is suffering all over the world that we turn a blind eye too. The twin tower tragedy shone a light on the ugliness we still have in the world. Watching those planes crash in and the surreal images broadcast into our homes on every single channel brought us to a place where we can not bury our heads in the said and pretend we don't know how things globally affect us. I am often reminded about how many of the countries had knowledge of what Hitler was doing with Jews but it wasn't a major concern because it was them not us.

We all have a global responsibility to see to it that the basic human rights of all people are respected until this is a reality no one is truly free.

There is no us and them the planet is not as large as it seems and what happens will eventually affect us all. Life is a never ending circle and the ripple effect will touch everyone.

TODAY YOU SHOULD VOW TO BE A PART OF CHANGE IN THE WORLD START WITH YOURSELF AND YOUR FEELINGS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

OOO I gotta start loving myself (Retweet plz)

 

Not to sound repetitive after watching the Tyra show yesterday it brought up a lot of feelings in me. So you know what I do best is use my words. I find it really sad that so many people in the world feel like shit and they want the world to join them. I will not be party to this folly. I encourage all of you today to be independent thinkers. You should never allow anyone's opinion of you to become your reality. Be you inspite of them if  you know that you are living your life and going about your way not harming another fuck what another person has to say about you, your life or your circumstance.

On the subject of looks you know how I always feel, love begins at home. It's always funny to me how people go about their day praising the beauty of others and don't even take the time to start your day by saying I love you to the most important person and that is self.

I am often accused of being conceited stuck up or arrogant. Any one that takes the time to really get to know me knows this could not be further from the truth. I will not cease to love myself and remind myself how much I love me just because it makes those that don't like themselves feel more comfy.

Remember today that you shouldn't give anyone in this world more than you give yourself first.

Take care and enjoy the weekend pumpkins

Chanel

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Breakout

Breakout by Swing Out Sister  
Download now or listen on posterous
Swing Out Sister - Breakout.mp3 (3500 KB)

There are times when you are doing something and you just have to re evaluate situations and make new plans. Lately I have had to do this myself. So in continuation of what I have already started and proven time and time again.

I am speaking of business but this can too apply to a persons personal life. No one will ever have your best interest at heart as much as you do or should. I have always had a very hands on approach to all things concerning me and I encourage you to do the same thing.

Remember don't sit around waiting to be fed go out and find your own food.

That's all for today pumpkins short sweet and to the point.

Chanel

Posted via email from TSSexyChanel's (Observations on life & Common Sense)

Tuesday, September 1, 2009

TEN TIPS FOR DATING OR INTERACTING WITH TRANSEXUALS

I came up with this short list for a few men a year ago that were struggling with transexual ladies after hearing all there stories this is what I came up with as the problem for not finding success

You have a T-Girl..so now what??

For you guys who haven’t dated or been in the company of a transwoman (ladyboy, shemale..etc.) here a a few tips. This is for actual dates where you meet for dinner or drinks or coffee and money is not exchanged for the company. This can also be used for those just befriending the transwoman.

1) DO: Use correct pronouns. SHE is not a “He” no matter what the doctors said at birth.

2) DON’T: Tell her she looks like a woman. Compliment her on how she looks (if you feel like it), but for goodness sake don’t act surprised. That tells her you expected a “man in a dress”.

3) DO: Be punctual, or communicate if you wil be running late. It’s polite and lots of TGs get stood up. Being really late with no explanation or warning tells anyone that they aren’t really important.

4) DON’T: Ask her what her “Real” name or “boy” name is. This probably brings up an unpleasant time in her life and it is often used by people to keep us in our place as “not really women” or “failed men”.

5) DON’T ask to see a picture of when she looked like a guy. Same as above but way way more. If you ever do see a picture of her from this time, understand that she is showing you herself when she was probably feeling her worst.

6) DO: Try to impress her. You don’t have to treat her like a princess, but you should use your best dating manners (ask what she likes to do, pay attention to her, smile alot).

7) DON’T: Treat her like your buddy. It’s like above, but more. Don’t leave her alone while you chat up another girl. She won’t take that as well as your guy friends would. Walk her to her door, even if you aren’t getting sex.

8) DO: Understand that she is an individual and has her own likes and dislikes. It will help your cause if you don’t assume too much about her.

9) DON’T: Ask about her genitalia or transgender history in public, or at least do it quietly. Most of us try to live unobserved in our daily lives. Broadcasting that your date has or had a penis is simply not safe for either of you.

10) DO: Have fun! Take her to a place you are both comfortable, get to know each other, laugh and makes jokes, be relaxed and be prepared to have a great night with a woman who will notice and appreciate every little kindness and polite gesture you make.

Posted via email from tssexychanel's posterous