See Bitches for Who They Really Are.

I can never get all my thoughts out in video so I will expand my views on videos that I think need more attention. Above is a video I posted on self acceptance. Enjoy

I want to talk though about "bitches". I am a firm believer that no one is born inherantly evil or good. In fact I think we all possess good and bad qualities and they are all necessary to our personality to be who we are as people.

I think people wouldn't be so affected by people with terrible attitudes if they saw people for what they truelly are. I will use Tyra as an example and I have to say I personally have nothing against her at all. She seems to grind the gears of so many people and I will say that she is a little annoying to me as well but hell I am 40 all kids annoy me LOL

People think she is just an evil bitch but when I really look at her I see a child still trying to find herself. If peel back the MAC too you will see a child who is never complimented for anything outside of her beauty. It's easy to see why her whole sense of self esteem is wrapped up in how she looks.

Let's talk about other of bitches my best friend Vanessa and I used to be bitches and this was stemmed from the fact that we figured no one liked us anyway with out even knowing us we figured might as well give them a reason. This too stemmed from esteem issues this is something I still struggle with all the time. I have just resolved that I will not let anyones actions or opinions of me change me from being the kind of person I want to be. I work daily not to feed into it by being the expected bitch.

Then there are the hurting bitches like many forms of abuse. Those who have been hurt usually turn out to hurt others later. Crazy as it seems this is the cycle of abuse. The abused become the abusers.

So if you stop and look at the bitches around you will find out that bitchiness is a defense mechanism. You will see these bitches as insecure, hurting, unsure fragile beings.

GIVE A BITCH A HUG

DON'T CONTRIBUTE TO THE HATE

BITCHES AREN'T BORN THEY ARE MADE

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